principles

It is good that you are taking the time to prepare. I appreciate thoroughness. It tells me that you know what you are looking for, or at least are taking the time to discover it.

  1. Be clear, honest, and respectful in your communication.
    • Introduce yourself.
    • Let me know your boundaries and preferences, or indicate if you are not sure yet.
    • Take your time.
    • I do not respond to one-line messages.
  2. Arrive on time. Not too early and not too late.
  3. Let me know in advance of a session if there are any medical conditions or physical contraindications.
  4. I work with a safeword.
    • Unless explicitly agreed otherwise.
  5. Mutual discretion and respect are a given.
  6. Do not touch me without my permission.
  7. Ensure good personal hygiene.
    • Showering is possible either just before the session or in the studio itself.
    • Anal douching is a requirement for anal play. You do this before a session. Is this not the case? Then you can purchase an anal douche on location, and we will dedicate a large part of the session to this.
    • Be neatly shaved.
  8. I never go into detail about a session in advance. I am happy to hear about your boundaries and preferences, but it remains a game of improvisation.
  9. A deposit may be required for some sessions. This is usually 1/3 of the total amount.
  10. Payments can be made in cash or via payment request. Payment must always be settled at the beginning of the session.